Begfriends & Bumlicks

i dont blog as often as before but hopefully you're still enjoying the blogs.
anyway no sorries , or ' im back ' because im not either of them (:


BEFORE I START- for those unfamiliar with the terms in the title
begfriend - someone who tries excessively hard to be friends with a person and to make the person like them. 
' omg she bought me cookies yesterday' .. its only because shes begfriending you to get with your brother ' 

bumlick- the action they would be doing. 

An example if someone agrees with everything you say; they're bumlicking you.

now that ive explained the terms , here goes. format may be a little different

Begfriends & Bumlicks

..note: some words have their meaning in brackets because international readers may be unfamilar with term

we all know that one person that is a friend to EVERYBODY but has no friends and they try HARD to please people and think its working when in reality the people dont even care about how hard they're trying. this person will happily get used and abused by people just to think that they have 'friends' well NO, people like this should read ' my definition of a friend ' blog and realize that .. THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND. 

On bbm i broadcast to my contacts whenever i have a new blog & they're always helpful in getting me more views and giving me more ideas for blogs im creating, so i decided that for the first time i'd let them have some input to this blog. some anonymous. some not.here are a few example of bumlicking situations theyve encountered ( first one is rephrased by me) :

• so you and this girl are having an argument , a normal bitchy thing.. it will be over soon . Then out of nowhere some MOIST ( pathetic) guy comes out of nowhere and inputs his opinion on the argument, obviously hes on the other girls side because he loves of this bitch. Youre like okay no need to  get involved , she can fight her own battles and what makes all of this worse is that THEYRE NOT EVEN IN A RELATIONSHIP. he is just a bumlick and wants her attention.
•  say if youre not talking with someone yeah and they try and chat to you directly or indirectly on a status, then theyll start talking to you out of nowhere and your like wtf pisss off ( go away) , and even when you say bye to them or imply the conversation is over they keep going - Zulkanain Choudhry
• its so annoying when someone keeps following you and keeps talking to you about whether he should beat ( sex)  girls and tries to look cool around you even though you know hes lying, and is always trying to be one of the guys, but in reality is one of THOSE guys - SOME SEXY FULL NIGERIAN
• When a group of you are having a debate and a person has a completely different view, there's three of you and two people agree and suddenly that one girl on her own changes her opinion and repeats what you say
• in year nine this girl begged it with another girl and copied everything even down to how she speaks, and how do people think to gain friends they have to become that person.. NO. JUST NO. be yourself -Anisah Pathan 
• one ive encountered is when someone becomes friends with people they dont even talk to just because im close friends with them and they want to get to me & when people hang out with certain people just to get close to boys yet the boys dont even pay them any attention - Rasharn Akinlade
• some guy follows me everywhere and i mean everywhere, even when i go toiler he waits for me outside. i just tell him to stop following me and he just stands there. ' AND ' this boy cussed ( dissed) of this girl so bad and this bumlick was like ah yeah your a don etc to later find out that his sister was getting cussed from that ' don' too - Nicholas Sergiou
• This yout in my new school licks his cousin and this other guys ASSCRACK, he's always following them , he tries to be like them, everything they do he copies, he tries to act bad cause theyre there to back him but when there not, hes quiet. AH i just wanna slap him- Joshua Jackson
• ' certain indivuials like to shove themselves up their apparent ' role models' ass just so they can be like them and receive the ' role models' attention and freindship which is just fake, obviously i believe that you should be yourself and put effort towards who put eforts towards you '
• when people broadcast other peoples pin calling them hot when theyre ugly , getting peoples hopes up over some 20stone person....and also when you call someone asking for their BBM PIN when they blatantly only know that person because your dp or status' .. ' YO WHATS THAT GIRLS PIN THAT WAS N YOUR STATUS SHE SOUNDS MAD' .... i know spasiticated people so much.. kind of like alloe black 'i need a frend , friend friend is what i neeeed if i share with you my storry will you share your friend with meeee .. i have the saddest people on my bbm, imaging this boy adds me of a broadcast and  doesnt remember meeting me and i tell him we've met. he doesnt remember so he asks ' are you good at talking dirty i am' and i was like o you sad cunt that is pathetic, then deleted him... then next day i was out and about and saw him, i laughed SOO much - LAURIE-ANN GHEZALI

* round of applause for the people above please* if you told me your stories and the'yr not up there .. sorry they were average.

now, MY experiences.. :

• so before i used to be friends with this girl but unlike other friends she was with me ALL THE TIME. i would come out of my classroom shes just waiting outside the door grinning like  ... i would come out the tolet shes like ' ohh i saw you going in' , i could be in some next fucking ends like gloucester , she's like oh ' HEYYYY DEANNE , i was just in the area, what  surprise you're here ' . everywhere i was, she was right there behind me and people would just assume we was best friends.. WE WERENT . i didnt even like the bitch, i just tolerated her.
• in year seven it was a bunch of new people and they all liked me , so much so that wherever i went there would be a swarm of about 10, if we was eating in the lunch hall , theyd all wait for me to finish and wed only get up when I was ready. obviously i didnt mind this because i liked the group, all apart from TWO. yanno in a big group you dont get along with every single one of them , or you get along with more than some the others... thats what it was. & these two would ALWAYS be there..ALWAYS. yanno when you just see/speak to people too often that youre SICK OF THEM. one time me and the group even ran away from one of two and the next day she was still with us like it was standard.

• AH theres this girl in one of my classes, last year she discovered this blog , and she was like ' oh DEANNE I LOVE YOUR BLOG , OMG YOU JUST SAY IT HOW IT IS , YOURE SO REAL , MORE PEOPLE SHOULD BE LIKE YOU ' & do you know what the worst thing is, she didnt even like me , and  i knew. so why would you need to bumlick someone you dont even like, where is the logic please ?

BE YOU

i'm always going on about how you should be yourself, i even made a blog mentioning it. READ IT.

http://deannes-world.blogspot.com/2011/07/be-sheep-or-shepherd.html

ANYWAY SAYING IT AGAIN

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you are the only YOU on this world, the only one. there is like 78737747263546 people on the world and only ONE you , do you understand how special that is? & you only get to be you ONCE , so why would you bother wasting your life trying to be someone you're not. whether you believe in god or not , you was made for a purpose and you was made the way you are for a reason , don't let it go to waste because you dont think your good enough....YOU ARE. Whatever you want to achieve in life, you can .. anything is attainable so don't let ANYONE.. ANYONE tell you that you can't even your  mum, what does she know? LOL im joking ( if you're reading this mum; love youu) but seriously if you want to do something and believe you can , then do it , even if you dont belive  you can, do it anyway because you might just surprise yourself.

& do NOT bumlick or begfriend, because when someone sees you are taking a strong liking to them yet the feeling isnt mutual , they will use it to their advantage, they will use you, they will play with you and you will end up being in a situation that you don't need to be dealing with. if you like someone and the feeling isnt mutual , just accept it and move on , as much as it may seem as you're losing , its their loss because they are missing out on being friends with an AMAZING person. if someone is bumlicking you , just give them a chance act like their friend so they can stop, if they carry on then tell them.. don't bitch about it to other people, tell them first so they can accept what they're doing and deal with it.

THAT IS ALL, hope you liked it. 

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xoxo